'Shut Up! Men Are Talking': One film's journey from YouTube to national TV

From 10 million YouTube views to national television: Movie Room acquires "Shut Up! Men Are Talking".
From 10 million YouTube views to national television: Movie Room acquires "Shut Up! Men Are Talking".Picture: Instagram/chrisq.za

A South African film that began as a self-funded passion project and went on to attract millions of viewers on YouTube is now making the leap to national television.

"Shut Up! Men Are Talking", a 100-minute feature film inspired by a true story from rural KwaZulu-Natal, will have its television premiere on Movie Room, DStv Channel 113, on August 31 at 8pm.

The screening follows Movie Room’s acquisition of the film’s exclusive television premiere rights, making it the channel’s first acquisition of a South African-produced feature film.

Written, directed and self-funded by Chris Q. Radebe, the film centres on Nontobeko, a widowed woman navigating the expectations of a deeply patriarchal society while fighting to reclaim her voice.

Through tension, gossip, tradition and confrontation, the film explores toxic masculinity and examines the ways in which culture and social expectations shape relationships.

The cast includes Jo-Anne Reyneke, Wiseman Mncube, Thulani Mtsweni, Zekhethelo Zondi and Lungelo Mpangase.

Chris Q. Radebe wrote, directed and self-funded the film, Shut Up! Men Are Talking
Chris Q. Radebe wrote, directed and self-funded the film, Shut Up! Men Are TalkingPicture: Supplied

For Radebe, the story is rooted in memories from his hometown of Highflats in southern KwaZulu-Natal.

Radebe, who has worked as a writer, storyliner and head writer on hit television productions including "Uzalo", "Isibaya", "Gomora", "The Queen" and "The River", said the idea for his film debut was sparked by a conversation with a woman he encountered during a visit home in December 2024.

Radebe recalled seeing the woman sweeping her yard and remembering that she had lost her husband at a young age.

When he asked how old she was when her husband died, she told him she was 28. He then asked why she had never moved on.

"Her response that doing so was considered ridiculous and unheard of stayed with me. In that part of the world once you are married you are married into that family for life. I got interested and thought what if a woman wanted to move on.

"I learnt from our conversation of unpleasant things happening to women who don't have husbands anymore. Things they have to contend with from men in the community. I recalled other incidents and put them all together and came up with the story. I thought there are still other women who live like that in those areas," he said.

Radebe said he wanted to tell a story about women who continue to live under those expectations and the challenges they face when they attempt to break away from them.

Rather than seek traditional funding, Radebe chose to finance the production himself.

He said he was concerned about the extent to which outside funding could influence the story he wanted to tell.

“I don't like how much is dictated as to what goes into your story. I wanted to keep the production the way I envisioned it, so I decided to self-fund it and do it my way. I decided to take the risk,” he said.

Shut Up! Men Are Talking is a locally produced film that is moving from YouTube to television screens.
Shut Up! Men Are Talking is a locally produced film that is moving from YouTube to television screens.Picture: Supplied

The film was shot in March last year, after which Radebe began releasing short clips online.

The response was immediate.

“After the first clip, the demand was crazy. I started releasing more short clips and people demanded the whole thing,” he said.

He subsequently completed work on the production, including its music, and released it for a one-night-only YouTube premiere.

Although only 30 people watched the first screening, interest grew rapidly. When he screened it again following numerous requests, about 40,000 viewers tuned in.

According to Radebe, the film attracted 40,000 viewers on its premiere day and went on to reach 10 million YouTube views within its first month.

“I knew that whoever got to watch it on YouTube would enjoy the story, but I was pleasantly surprised by the response.”

The film remained on YouTube for several months before attracting interest from a streamer.

For Radebe, the experience demonstrated the power of digital platforms to give filmmakers an alternative route to audiences.

“The beautiful thing about YouTube is you don't need permission to upload movies or short productions,” he said.

Thulani Mtsweni, who plays Mancinza in the film, Shut Up! Men Are Talking
Thulani Mtsweni, who plays Mancinza in the film, Shut Up! Men Are TalkingPicture: Supplied

Thulani Mtsweni, who plays Mancinza, the character who abuses Nontobeko, said he was attracted to the film's story as it was something that would create conversations.

The actor said he sees himself primarily as a storyteller and wants to take on roles that allow him to grow while contributing meaningfully to the stories being told.

He was particularly drawn to the film because of its rural setting and the reality it portrays.

“This is somebody else's reality,” Mtsweni said.

He believes the television premiere will introduce the film to audiences who may not have encountered it on YouTube.

“Not everyone watches on YouTube. This movie will stir debate and we will talk as a nation. It will start conversations. Because we do talk about such, but hush hush,” he said.

Mtsweni also pointed to the importance of digital platforms in creating opportunities for filmmakers whose stories might otherwise struggle to find a home in cinemas or on television.

“There are still so many stories to be told, and not everyone will be able to screen it on TV or theatre. Therefore, platforms like YouTube help create such opportunities for professional filmmakers as well as emerging artists,” he said.

Other South Africans whose YouTube productions pivoted to mainstream television, cinema or shows includes Ofentse Mwase. He garnered over 1.4 million subscribers by creating high-quality cinematic skits and parodies on YouTube.

This transitioned into mainstream cinema by directing and producing the Netflix Original South African action film Collision.

Another is Lasizwe Dambuza who initially rose to fame through his viral comedy skits on YouTube and later landed his own reality television show, "@Lasizwe: Fake It till You Make It", which aired nationally on MTV Africa.

Movie Room's acquisition signals a new direction as the channel begins exploring more South African films and opportunities to collaborate with independent local filmmakers.

Chief content officer for Movie Room, Pulane Tshabalala, said: “South Africa has a wealth of independent filmmaking talent and stories that deserve wider audiences. This acquisition is an important first for Movie Room and the beginning of our journey into South African feature films.”

The premiere will close Movie Room’s Stories That Are For Her Women’s Month campaign.

For Radebe, the journey of "Shut Up! Men Are Talking", from a personal story rooted in rural KwaZulu-Natal, to a self-funded production, a YouTube success and now a national television premiere, is evidence that independent filmmakers can find audiences beyond the traditional gatekeepers of the industry.

taschica.pillay@nationalmg.co.za